Be Careful What You "Say"

I had written a post about why I wouldn't want to
"hook up"
with certain people.

Why I wouldn't bother and why I don't.

I guess, I went into too many details about it.
Or "said" something in a way
that went against guidelines...

Because that post got flagged.

And pretty sure I've said similar things.

But, yeah, for the most part...
I try not to go "overboard"
about some things.

And any time I write about
something that "happened"
like a "cr1me" that happened...
Here, or anywhere else...

I'm not "condoning or promoting" it.
I don't "encourage" that stuff
just by writing about the fact it "happened."

Just that I have to be more "careful"
because anything I say...

Can get "misinterpreted."
"Twisted all the way around...
The wrong way."

So I converted it to a "draft."

But it was mostly "talking" about
My "reasons"
For being "single" and "celibate."

The things that turned me off...
Wayyy off.

ALSO, I was writing about...

How people who never KNEW me
would have all these things to say
about me
as though they ever knew me LOL.

Maybe some "words" get automatically "flagged."

I was also writing about how
people tell me they miss things ABOUT me
but missing something ABOUT
someone...

Isn't the same thing as missing THEM,
as a person...

For the most part, I've been kinda "raw"
about stuff...

BUT I'M NOT SAYING I CONDONE
CERTAIN STUFF THAT I WRITE ABOUT.

And I mostly bring stuff up
to make a point about it.

JUST BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE
HAVE DONE STUFF
AND DO STUFF
DOES NOT MEAN
I'M - IN ANY WAY - ENCOURAGING IT

BY WRITING ABOUT IT.

So I have to be "careful" what I "say"
BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE
"MIGHT" GET THE "WRONG IDEA"
ABOUT SOMETHING I WROTE.

EVEN IF I WROTE IT
JUST TO REFER TO SOMETHING ELSE.

Bugs me to have to "censor" things I say
or want to write about, 
but if my "stuff" is gonna get "flagged"

BECAUSE I WROTE SOMETHING
THAT SOMEONE "COULD"
TAKE THE "WRONG WAY"...

Then, I guess I'm going to have to EDIT STUFF.
MAYBE EVEN "REDACT" STUFF LOL.

Then people will see all these _______ spaces...
And fill in the "blanks" lol. 

Can't say THIS so I'll _______ it out. LOL.

I'd rather just SAY it than _____________ it out.

But if that's a way around getting "flagged"
then... Use your imagination!

When I was in school, we had these Ad Libs...

A guy on my school bus had those.
And we'd do them on the bus for a hoot.

That's the first time, I'd seen one.

Can't censor me if I censor myself lol.
So take _____ that!

Just was surprising because I'm sure I've said worse.

But at the same time, not like I've been....
Keeping a "lid" on it, on here.

Probably should before... I dig myself a hole...
With words...

Just biting my "tongue" might be "hard to do"
sometimes.

Because I'd just like to "say some things"
"freely."

BECAUSE I DON'T MEAN ANY "H@RM"
JUST SPEAKING MY MIND.

Definitely not trying to 1nc1te anything. 

Just by writing about something...
That I have an "opinion" about...

R10t at the disco! Joking.

Anyway, maybe it was a few things I wrote.
Just the way I wrote about them...

Because often, it's not about what you say.
It's about how you say what you say.

And if you say something
that could EASILY BE INTERPRETED
IN THE WRONG WAY...

What happens?
Someone interprets it the wrong way.

And I really shouldn't have to explain
WHAT I MEAN ABOUT
SOMETHING I SAID OR WROTE.

Because even writing about a case...
Or something cr1m1n@l that happened...

Could be "interpreted" as I "condone" that.
I don't.

So maybe that had somthing to do with
why my content got flagged.

It's not like I'm trying to "gather" people
to think like me
and do some weird @ss m1nd c0ntr0l stuff.

It shouldn't be a cr1me to say:
This is what I think about this.

That's pretty much all I write about.
Nothing cr1m1n@l.

UNLESS IT'S A CR1ME
TO "FART" "AGAINST A WALL"
AS "R#TR1BUT10N"
FOR... BEING "N0ISY."

And I just make JOKES about some stuff.

I wouldn't actually do it.

With my "luck" it'd backf1re some way
or another.

Like most things do and have.
Historically, in my life.

Sucks it got flagged because I got a lot out.
Made some points.

BUT WE LIVE IN AN AGE
ANYONE CAN TAKE DEEP OFFENSE
TO ANYTHING THEY READ.

Like how I wrote in a post
that being a female isn't all it's cracked up to be.
So why anyone would want to transition to be one, 
I don't know.

BUT THAT WASN'T ANYTHING AGAINST
TRANSITIONING.

AND I FOLLOWED IT BY WRITING
ABOUT A CO-WORKER
WHO DID TRANSITION. 

AND HE WANTED TO TELL ME
BEFORE ANYONE ELSE DID.

AND TO ME, HE WAS WHO HE INTRODUCED 
HIMSELF AS.

AND I WOULDN'T HAVE BELIEVED ANYONE
WHO TOLD ME HE WAS BORN A FEMALE.

But, anyone reading anything I wrote about
"transitioning"

COULD SAY I WAS A PHOBIC OR SOME SH*T
WHEN WHETHER THEY WANT TO OR NOT
IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS!

WHY THEY WANT TO
IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS!

IF THEY HAVE OR NOT
IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS!

What bugs me is someone
trying to make something
THAT IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS
SOMETHING THAT I "SAID"
WHEN I NEVER "SAID" 
WHATEVER THEY THOUGHT
OR THINK I "SAID." 

So I have to "pepper in"
some disclaimers.

And explain some stuff...
Which is kinda "lame."

BUT THIS IS THE KIND OF SOCIETY WE LIVE IN.
WHERE ANYONE AND EVERYONE
GETS OFFENDED
OVER NOTHING!

I just wrote that having "female parts"
isn't all that "great."

Like when I found the first "lump"
in my boob. 

And how I don't think that someone
who transitioned from a male to a female
can get a per10d.

Because I don't think they can reproduce
a reproductive "system."

I have to admit there's a lot I don't know about that stuff.

And anyone who wants to, go for it.
NONE OF MY BUSINESS, THOUGH.

It's like this:

It's fine to have a whatever...
It's not cool to "force someone to believe"
in whatever you believe...

One "town" refused to have a g@y parade.

AND THEY GOT HIT WITH A HUGE FINE FOR IT.
WHEN IT SHOULD BE THEIR CHOICE
IF THEY WANT ONE OR NOT.

AND IF THEY DON'T, 
THEY SHOULDN'T BE "FORCED"
INTO IT.

AND THEM NOT WANTING TO
HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM
BEING PHOBIC OR H@TING G@Y PEOPLE ETC.

IT'S THAT THEY DON'T WANT TO HAVE IT, 
IN THEIR TOWN. 

AND THAT CHOICE SHOULD BE A CHOICE.

JUST LIKE IT'S MY CHOICE
TO... NOT WANT TO BE "FORCED"
TO BELIEVE XYZ ABOUT ABC, 
OR HIJ ETC.

It's that hetero people...
WE DON'T GO AROUND
BEING REALLY... FLAMBOYANT
ABOUT IT.

And if they wanted to be, 
THEY SHOULDN'T EXPECT
G@Y PEOPLE
TO BE ALL LIKE:
"LET'S CELEBRATE THAT!"

Again, nothing against g@y people.
It's just none of my business
what they prefer or how they want
to live their lives.

Just like it's none of their business
about my preferences.

And there should be nothing wrong
with saying that it's
none of my business
because it isn't.

That is THEIR business, not mine.

And am I okay that Sally likes Susie?
Sure! If they are happy, GREAT!
FANTASTIC!

DOES IT MAKE IT ANY OF MY BUSINESS,
THOUGH?

And not wanting something that is NONE of my business
to be used "against me"
is what I was getting at.

If people are g@y. They are. So what?
Doesn't make it any of my business!!!!

And if someone's going to use the fact
that it's none of my business against me...

TO MAKE IT INTO SOMETHING
I NEVER MEANT
OR NEVER SAID...

THAT'S THE ONLY THING I HAVE AN ISSUE WITH.

IF BILLY WANTS TO WEAR A DRESS...
SO WHAT?

SHOULDN'T I STILL
GET TO WEAR PANTS IF I WANT TO?

Just that it should be a choice.
And what is none of my business....
IS JUST NONE OF MY BUSINESS.

Doesn't mean I have anything against 
people who want to be with a same-s3x partner
or whatever...

THAT IS THEIR LIFE
AND THEIR BUSINESS.
NOT MINE.

So why should anyone be "offended"
that something that is none of my business
is none of my business?

And the only other thing that I'll add
is that adult stuff
is none of any child's business.

IS THAT FAIR TO SAY?

That something that is none of my business...
Isn't any of my business?

The post was about how my co-worker
wanted to tell me, first.
Before I "heard" any "gossip"
about him. 

I hadn't, but like I said...
I wouldn't have believed it...

And whoever and whatever he was born as
ISN'T MY BUSINESS.

WHY HE WANTED TO TRANSITION
OR WHATEVER
IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS.

I mean, if he wanted to go into depth
and details or whatever...
I'd listen...

BUT STILL NOT MY BUSINESS!!!!

If he wanted me to know
FROM HIM
that's fine with me.

I appreciate he had the convo with me.

But it had nothing to do with why I left that company. 

I left because it's a sh*tty company.
With sh*tty people managing it.

It sucked. Still does, probably. 

Had nothing to do with him. At all. 

It's that I didn't want to work
FOR THAT COMPANY ANYMORE.

NOTHING ABOUT HIM.

Just saying that being a female
HAS DRAWBACKS.

LIKE THE THINGS I EXPERIENCED
JUST FOR BEING A FEMALE.

BECAUSE HAD I BEEN A MALE
THOSE MALES
WOULDN'T HAVE
GONE WHERE THEY WENT..

They wouldn't do stuff like
try to look up my skirt...

Or follow me into a building, 
wait for me to come out of my appointment
to follow me out the door.

It wasn't even that I had any dialogue with the guy!!!

He pretended he had an appointment too!!!

So if he actually did...
Why not wait for his appointment?
Instead of following me out the door?

They wouldn't have done A LOT OF THINGS
THEY THOUGHT THEY COULD JUST DO
AND USE THE FACT THAT I'M A FEMALE
TO DO IT.

Because 1000% they wouldn't have done it
TO A MALE.

LIKE WANTING TO HUG ME.
OR "BRUSHING UP AGAINST" ME.
GETTING WAYYY TOO CLOSE.

A MYRIAD OF THINGS.

THEY HAD NO BUSINESS DOING!!!
BUT DID IT BECAUSE
THEY WANTED TO!!!
WANTED "SOMETHING" FROM ME!!!

And if I was a male, most males
wouldn't do that or TRY it.

SO THEY DO BECAUSE I'M A FEMALE?

Get what I'm saying?

IF THEY TRULY KNEW
WHAT A LOT OF FEMALES
HAVE EXPERIENCED
JUST FOR BEING A FEMALE...

WHY WOULD THEY WANT TO BE ONE?

BUT... NONE OF MY BUSINESS IF THEY DO!!!

WHY SHOULD IT MATTER TO ME?
IF THEY WANT TO, THEY CAN DO IT.

JUST... STILL NONE OF MY BUSINESS!!!!
But people will still find that "offensive"
THAT I SAID IT WAS NONE OF MY BUSINESS.

EVEN THOUGH, IT'S TRUE.
IT ISN'T.