Been thinking about dating again, more about meeting new people than actually dating. But just the concept of dating itself... It's so weird. I know it's supposed to be this process (that obviously takes years and years)... I found out today that there are singles clubs and dating clubs in Ottawa. I'm thinking of joining some clubs around town, just to have some things to look forward to... There are a few events I signed up for. I guess I'll have to write about it and let you know how they go.
Anyway, I was watching THIS MOVIE called "Stuck on You". Thought it was kind of funny. It's about dating. My horoscope said something about cupid and stuff like that. Thought it was funny how Gabriel resembled Cupid... I'm not going to put too much stock in this whole dating thing anymore, but I can still meet new people while I mull it over.
I had a discussion about my attitude towards men with a guy the other night. He provided some insight on how the guy's mind works. I taught him a thing or two about women. I found it helpful. I found a theme going on: the hunters who hunt... For... Yes, that thing. Their ultimate goal. Sometimes like a game of chess to get to the 'checkmate' or something. Or so I imagine it to be like. Or you can look at a relationship like an ongoing game of backgammon. Roll of the dice. The dating is the gamble. You never know if you're going to win or lose, and it's not even about winning or losing... It's about the give and take. The reciprocating. Encouragement and support, trust and all of that stuff... That's hard to find these days. More and more people are out for themselves than ever before, not out for love...
"In a restless world like this is, love is over before it's begun..." Part of a song I've heard recently...
The more I keep on my own path, where I should be, the more things will fall into place.
Anyway, I was watching THIS MOVIE called "Stuck on You". Thought it was kind of funny. It's about dating. My horoscope said something about cupid and stuff like that. Thought it was funny how Gabriel resembled Cupid... I'm not going to put too much stock in this whole dating thing anymore, but I can still meet new people while I mull it over.
I had a discussion about my attitude towards men with a guy the other night. He provided some insight on how the guy's mind works. I taught him a thing or two about women. I found it helpful. I found a theme going on: the hunters who hunt... For... Yes, that thing. Their ultimate goal. Sometimes like a game of chess to get to the 'checkmate' or something. Or so I imagine it to be like. Or you can look at a relationship like an ongoing game of backgammon. Roll of the dice. The dating is the gamble. You never know if you're going to win or lose, and it's not even about winning or losing... It's about the give and take. The reciprocating. Encouragement and support, trust and all of that stuff... That's hard to find these days. More and more people are out for themselves than ever before, not out for love...
"In a restless world like this is, love is over before it's begun..." Part of a song I've heard recently...
The more I keep on my own path, where I should be, the more things will fall into place.
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