I'm starting to really think about things my friends have been telling me long ago. That I have to move on because if I don't, I won't. They said that I need to let things go. Which is the truth. Sometimes I have to let people go, too. That is the hard part. Especially since I care too much. I really do. I can see that I do. Even when nobody else can. Things aren't always what they seem like. Because everyone assumes things and acts from their assumptions.
I know I need to get started, but it really is hard to take the first critical steps that get the whole thing rolling. I know you know what I mean. I do need to set my resolutions for this year. It's just that I'm anxious. I get so anxious at times that I can't seem to relax enough to do anything productive. I'm alone with my thoughts. Thoughts can harm or help you. Depends on if you are thinking negatively or positively.
My ex and I... We tried to be friends and it didn't work. I want to say I used to care and now I don't, but a part of me still does. Even though this was one of those from bad to worse things that I kept trying to make better. I did put some effort into it, but not as much as I was supposed to... Apparently.
I can't help it if someone has needs that I cannot fulfill. I cannot help it if someone expects me to be there when they know I can't be. That, itself, isn't fair.
I did a quick search and it looks like he has a profile on a bunch of dating sites. He can go for it. Just that I know he will have the same problems with others as he did with me. You know how I know this? Because I will still have the same problems with someone else that I did with him. The problems exist because we need to make changes in ourselves. I have to change the way I deal with people. I am patient to a point. Sometimes too patient. I stick around when there is no real reason to. Because I care too much. That is my only reason. I might not know how to show people I care, but I do. Waaaaayyyyy too much!
To the point that I'm often emotionally drained. It has been hard to focus on anything for over a week. Probably longer than that. I'm pretty depressed. I might be for quite some time. That void in my life that I was trying to fill is back and being imbalanced with a huge void is not making me very happy. So obviously I need to start really looking at some things and trying to figure out what I can do differently. I also need to start thinking differently so I can start feeling better.
I know I need to get started, but it really is hard to take the first critical steps that get the whole thing rolling. I know you know what I mean. I do need to set my resolutions for this year. It's just that I'm anxious. I get so anxious at times that I can't seem to relax enough to do anything productive. I'm alone with my thoughts. Thoughts can harm or help you. Depends on if you are thinking negatively or positively.
My ex and I... We tried to be friends and it didn't work. I want to say I used to care and now I don't, but a part of me still does. Even though this was one of those from bad to worse things that I kept trying to make better. I did put some effort into it, but not as much as I was supposed to... Apparently.
I can't help it if someone has needs that I cannot fulfill. I cannot help it if someone expects me to be there when they know I can't be. That, itself, isn't fair.
I did a quick search and it looks like he has a profile on a bunch of dating sites. He can go for it. Just that I know he will have the same problems with others as he did with me. You know how I know this? Because I will still have the same problems with someone else that I did with him. The problems exist because we need to make changes in ourselves. I have to change the way I deal with people. I am patient to a point. Sometimes too patient. I stick around when there is no real reason to. Because I care too much. That is my only reason. I might not know how to show people I care, but I do. Waaaaayyyyy too much!
To the point that I'm often emotionally drained. It has been hard to focus on anything for over a week. Probably longer than that. I'm pretty depressed. I might be for quite some time. That void in my life that I was trying to fill is back and being imbalanced with a huge void is not making me very happy. So obviously I need to start really looking at some things and trying to figure out what I can do differently. I also need to start thinking differently so I can start feeling better.
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